Thursday, January 18, 2018

THE SECRET TO HAVING A HAPPY HEALTHY CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE

Proclamation:
“However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.”  Ephesians 5:33 (NIV)

Explanation:
These words were written by the Apostle Paul under the influence of The Holy Spirit of God.  Paul begins this chapter continuing his dialogue regarding the Christian walk and life stating what one should do and what to avoid. (Ephesians 5:1-20)  Then he switches up and begins to discuss the Christian household, specifically, the relationship between husband and wife and he compares it to the relationship between Christ and the church. (Ephesians 5:21-33)   Husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25) and they ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. (Ephesians 5:28)  Wives would have no problem submitting to their husbands (Ephesians 5:22) if he would love her as Christ loved the church and has he loves himself.

Application:
More than half of the marriages today fail.  The problem boils down to the fact that men do not love their wife as Christ loved the church.  We do not love our wives as much as we love ourselves.  If more men made their wife their number one priority, more women would respect and gladly submit to their husband.  The Bible describes what love is in First Corinthians, (chapter 13:4-7) but here Paul provides practical examples of how love is demonstrated.  The example that we are to imitate is the love which Christ had for the church.  Paul ended this chapter urging men to love their wife as they love themselves and for women to reverence their husbands.  There would be many more happy Christian households if we all would follow this advice.

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