Tuesday, February 11, 2020

GOOD INTENTIONS CAN BE MISUNDERSTOOD


PROCLAMATION
“The Ammonite commanders said to Hanun, ‘Do you think David is honoring your father by sending envoys to you to express sympathy?  Haven’t his envoys come to you only to explore and spy out the country and overthrow it?’  So Hanun seized David’s envoys, shaved them, cut off their garments at the buttocks, and sent them away.”  1 Chronicles 19:3-4 (NIV)

EXPLANATION
When Nahash, the king of the Ammonites, died, his son Hanun succeeded him.  King David heard that Nahash had died he wanted to show kindness to his son because Nahash had been kind to him. (1 Chronicles 19:1-2)   So King David sent a delegation to Hanun to express his sympathy regarding his father’s death.  But King Hanun listened to the commanders of his army and treated King David’s envoy as if they were spies.  He humiliated them, shaved off half of their hair and beards, and then sent them away naked from the waist down. (1 Chronicles 19:3-4)  Then he formed an allegiance with the Syrians, with the Maakahites, and with the Tobites to prepare for war because he felt that he had offended David. (1 Chronicles 19:6-7)  These events are also recorded in the tenth chapter of The Bible Book of Second Samuel.  

APPLICATION
Our good intentions and our efforts to be kind to someone can be misunderstood.  Sometimes something as simple as a smile, or a kind word, or a random act of kindness can be completely misunderstood.  Even when we clearly state our intentions, our words may not be accepted or believed.  That may be caused by the person’s own suspicions, lack of trust, or paranoia and not by anything that we have done or said.  The misunderstanding may also be the result of some misinformation or bad advice received from others.  Their personal opinions are not a problem for us unless they choose to take actions against us because of them.  Then we need to pray and ask The Lord God for protection, guidance, and directions.  If we are left to our own devices, we will probably make an emotional response and commit a sin. (Proverbs 3:5-6)  This should also teach us to be very careful whom we listen to and take advice from.


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