Speak Wholesome Helpful Conversations

"Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.  And do not grieve The Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption."  Ephesians 4:29-30 (NIV)

In his letter to the believers in The Church at Ephesus, the Apostle Paul to guide and direct them in their Christian walk.  Under the direction and influence of The Holy Spirit of God, Paul told them to let their speech and choice of words reflect a Christ-like communication.  Their words should benefit the listener, and they should build each other up when they speak.  He told them to control their tongue and not let any unwholesome words come out of their mouths, least they grieve The Holy Spirit of God.

We know that telling a lie is a sin. (Exodus 20:16, Proverbs 14:5, and Matthew 19:18)  However for some unknown reason, a lot of us seem to think that it is okay to use foul language and profanities in our conversation.  We will have to give an account for every word that we speak. (Matthew 12:36)  If what we say does not give glory to God, then it is a sin. (1 John 5:17)  We need to clean up our communications.  It has been said that "the use of profanity is just a weak mind trying to express itself forcefully." (author unknown)  Our communication should always be Christ-like, even when we are upset, hurt, or angry. (Colossians 3:8 and James 3:6)  Additionally, if what we have to say will not be helpful to the listener, then it should not be said.  On three occasions The Bible gives an example of men being told to encourage another. (Deuteronomy 1:38, Deuteronomy 3:28, and 2 Samuel 11:25)  Our conversations should please, and not grieve The Holy Spirit of God.